Ask Busca: Dads and Doulas?

July 19, 2010 at 7:21 pm

Fig asked:

My husband only wants the two of us to be present for our first baby’s birth. (No friends or relatives or anything, just him, me, and the people who are delivering the baby.) So … do you think I can convince him a doula would be one of the baby-delivery personnel? I have no idea what the dynamic is like in a delivery room. No idea what to expect. But here’s what I know about my husband: he is extremely private. He doesn’t like big fusses, or loud craziness, and he’s very uncomfortable with profound emotions/pain. He also doesn’t like to be bossed. I guess I just can’t figure out how the husband and doula work together without the husband feeling a little bit weird. Am I worrying about nothing?

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